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Why a woman's actions has nothing to do with being raped

First of all I must say how refreshing it is to see a campaign that is both raising awareness and challenging ignorance. It really is a breath of fresh air.

Secondly, I wanted to share my experience. I was spiked and raped in1995. I was wearing a short skirt but this had nothing to do with my rape. I had had very little to drink and I flirted a little bit - again this had no effect on wether I was raped or not. The "man" who raped me told me that he spiked one of the drinks out of the round that I bought and I was "just unlucky" that it was mine that the drug ended up in. He didn't choose a victim by length of skirt or by beauty by how drunk they were or by anything. It was a complete lottery. I could have been wearing the most modest of clothing and it would have made no difference at all. I could have been anyone and it wouldn't have changed anything. I could have been t-total and the same would have happened. In fact I even think that if I had been male the out come would have been exactly the same. The fact is that "people" like that don't care an iota who they hurt. So I don't believe for one second that the fact that I was raped was anyone's fault but his. End of.

Author: Hope, Female, Cumbria
Date: 02/07/2010

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“Rape seems to be the only crime where it's seen as ok to put the victim on trial.”

Natasha, Female from Glasgow

“Short skirts don't cause rape. Rapists cause rape”

Joss, Female from Connecticut

“About time something like this was shown on TV. Hopefully it will make everyone realise there cannot be any excuse for rape - EVER.”

Helzo, Female from Renfrewshire